Look of the Week: 130709 {In Full Swing}

by Shai Coggins on July 28, 2009 · 13 comments

in Shopping + Girl Stuff


Look of the Week: 130709

Just when I thought that life can’t possibly get any busier, my four-week practicum teaching started over a week ago. And yes, it is full on.

Right now, I get an early morning start to get myself and the rest of my troop ready for the day. Then, I’m off to school as a student teacher from 8.30 am to 3.30 pm. Some days, I have to stay back for staff meetings. Some days, I add on another couple of hours or so of work, as I report to my other job in a non-profit organisation.

Then, of course, by the time I get home, there are chores to do, dinners to make, kids to play with and to take care of. Not to mention, lesson plans to write and resources to prepare for my classes.

And yeah, some days, we even get the added load of a sick little one.

To top it all off, I’m still trying to find whatever time I can find to push some of my projects along *and* to maintain my blogs.

So yeah, I’m in a constant state of exhaustion lately.

But, I’m happy. Really, seriously happy. About home, work, studies, and life in general.

Not only did I get top marks for the courses I took at Uni during the first semester (two High Distinctions and a Distinction!) – I’m getting some really, really positive feedback from my mentor teacher at the moment. I’m learning heaps. I’m developing my confidence in teaching (I’ve even been singing to my students — and, if you know what my singing voice is like, you’ll understand why this is such a big feat! :-) ).

Family life’s crazy busy, as always. But, in spite the fact that my li’l girl’s been getting sick on and off the last few weeks, she’s growing well and amazingly joyful. At two, she’s beginning to speak in sentences, almost counting to twenty, and doing all sorts of wonderful stuff. The boy’s back for a third term at school and has been training in his favourite sports (soccer and tennis). He’s also loving his science shows and project creations. Hubby’s also busy at work, working on getting papers published, attending conferences, and working on his PhD.

It’s definitely a full, full house.

And, regardless of the challenges and all the icky stuff that come with it, I can still say that life’s good. Real good.

Style Notes:

  • Diamante ribbon on wire headband – From the cheap souvenir shop in Adelaide CBD (AU$3!)
  • Big pearl earrings – From the Philippines. Purchased about a decade ago. They were one of my wedding earrings!
  • Black long-sleeved cotton top – From Essentials
  • Layered floral print dressNo label. Not sure where this is from. It’s another hand-me-down from my darling sis.
  • Black leggings – From Valley Girl. I like shopping at VG for some casual items like shirts and shrugs, as they carry my size.
  • Purple blazer/jacket – From Portmans. This is probably one of my favourite shops for workwear items like jackets, skirts, and pants. Again, partly because they carry my size on a regular basis. I also love their simple, classic look. Sometimes, with a touch of special details. Like in this jacket, for instance. It’s a simple, classic jacket, but there’s some detailing near the pocket area that I really love.
  • Purple faux suede stiletto boots – From Wittner. Between stilettos and chunky heels, I’d choose chunky most of the time. I’m not really big on the pointy-footed look, you see. But, as you can see here, there are moments when I do come across pointy shoes that also capture my fancy. :-)

Where To: Off to work at my part-time job

Photography Notes:

  • Camera: Nikon D40x
  • Lens: Sigma 30mm f1.4
  • Venue: Our back garden; Background is just the fencing;
  • Lighting: Natural lighting – Again, this was towards the end of the day. It was also raining on and off that day, so I was pretty lucky to get a few minutes of semi-sun to do this shoot.
  • Self Portrait Technique Used: Remote! Yes, my remote’s finally in operation again. Makes life so much easier!
  • Other photo gadgets used: Gorillapod + tall bar chair to act as my tripod.
  • Post Processing: Very basic tweaks via iPhoto. Mostly sharpening or changes in saturation. In some cases, some cropping too.
  • Collage: Created via Picasa for Mac.
Blog Widget by LinkWithin

You Might Also Like To Read...

{ 7 comments… read them below or add one }

1

Kari 07.28.09 at 10:52 pm

I understand the exhaustion you speak of. I can’t even imagine if I had two children added into the mix of an already demanding schedule! Regardless, I’m very pleased to hear despite your schedule you are loving life! I only hope your poor little girl can catch a break soon. Is it the same illness from before? I will be sure to say an extra prayer for the return of her health. Keep up the great work Shai!

[Reply]

Shai Coggins reply on August 26th, 2009:

Thanks, Kari – for your very kind comment about all of these things. :-) I really appreciate it!

[Reply]

2

Kari 07.28.09 at 10:54 pm

I almost forgot – I am in love with your entire outfit! I love the purple, the boots, the floral, etc. Beautiful!

[Reply]

3

Connie 07.29.09 at 2:03 am

I salute you, Shai. I don’t know how you do it!

I love the floral dress. It goes well with the boots.

[Reply]

Shai Coggins reply on August 26th, 2009:

Thanks, Connie. I think we all have different ways of choosing how we spend our time. I’m not sure if I do it all right 100% but hopefully, close enough. :-) And thanks! ‘Glad you liked the look. :-)

[Reply]

4

My Inner French Girl 07.31.09 at 6:15 am

Bonjour, Shai! Totally love the outfit. What amazes me is that you find time to nurture and develop your amazing style while in the midst of all that’s happening in your life. Good on ya. ;-)

You’ve probably mentioned this elsewhere, but if you don’t mind my asking, what’s your husband’s Ph.D. on? I’m thinking of pursuing one myself but am always hemming and hawing.

Sounds like you’ve the best of all possible worlds, and for that I congratulate you. I love when women talk about how full their lives are and yet do so with so much gratitude instead of resentment. You recognize how blessed you are to not only have a happy and healthy (all things considered!) family while also taking care of your own needs. Sometimes I forget and start whining about being busy and all that, but really when I stop and think about it, I realize that I’m doing exactly what I want to do, and that all (or most of it, anyway!) is my choice, not something anyone is forcing me to do. Everything I do is propelling me towards a larger goal, one I created and am nurturing myself. It’s a huge accomplishment itself that we women have that privilege now, considering that for millenia we’ve been relegated to second- or even third-class citizens, with no hope of anything to call our own, even our dreams.

Merci for the lovely post and update on your life. And congrats on the distinctions!

Salut,
Marjorie

[Reply]

Shai Coggins reply on August 26th, 2009:

Hey, Marjorie. Merci! :-) That’s really kind of you to say all of that. I am humbled by your wonderful words. Anyway, on my husband’s PhD – he’s doing one on Construction Law, as it’s his area of expertise. I wonder what you’re planning to do your PhD on? I think doing a degree like that is a real major commitment. It depends on what you want to get out of it. However, if it’s really something that’s gnawing at you, perhaps, it’s worth investigating further why – and see if that’s what you really, really want to do. No matter what, I wish you all the best with it! :-)

[Reply]

5

Glenda 08.01.09 at 6:33 pm

i like the layered floral print dress!

[Reply]

Shai Coggins reply on August 26th, 2009:

Thanks, Glenda! Glad you liked it too! :-)

[Reply]

6

Kharen 08.09.09 at 3:07 pm

Well Done Shai! Congratulations on, well, Everything. A happy even if sometimes chaotic home and a very fulfilling professional life. Striking that lovely balance is very tricky.

It felt like I was reading my experiences, say, 5 years ago. I remembered it was tough, very tough. You know, juggling 2 careers and a young family and keeping sane. Well, I am a little crazy to start with, anyway :P

Having 2 older kids now (7 and 11), a happy hubby and a well oiled household (i’d like to think so. lol), i can just look back on those times and thank God for that wonderful time. It has been chaotic sometimes and depressing, but well, i came out of it happy and fulfilled, so there’s nothing really to complain about. Is there?

Great Luck and Keep up the Positivity!

[Reply]

Shai Coggins reply on August 26th, 2009:

Wow, thanks, Kharen. And yes, it sounds like it all went well for you. Sometimes, it is difficult to see past what’s happening in the present – especially when it gets chaotic and crazy like that, isn’t it? But, going through such tough times can be good in the end. So, I’m glad things have turned out great! :-)

[Reply]

7

Sasha 08.21.09 at 1:52 am

It’s an Irene Pineda dress, local indie designer. It actually has a name, Emily Ruf Dress — http://www.stylemanila.com/2008/04/16/emily-ruf-dress/ :-)

[Reply]

Shai Coggins reply on August 26th, 2009:

That’s cool, Sis. Makes the dress even more special, knowing that info. Thanks again! :-)

[Reply]

Leave a Comment

You can use these HTML tags and attributes: <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <strike> <strong>


Older post: Inspiration Café: Interview with Chynna Laird, Author and Special Needs Advocate

Newer post: Chocolate Crinkles Recipe