As a child, one of my favourite parts of getting sick was the feeling of being cared for. And no, I’m not just talking about being allowed to miss school.
My parents have never really been the ’showy’, affectionate types. But, I do remember enjoying the warmth of my parents’ arms, as they carried me to bed when I fell asleep on the sofa. And, the joy of having homemade soup to comfort my aches and pains. And, how my mom rubbed Vicks on my back and on my chest - and put a warm towel on my head when there was a need for such.
I also recall how my dad used to fill a basin full of warm water (with salt) to give me a foot and leg bath/massage. I can still almost feel my trepidation whenever my toes touched the hot water, which immediately got replaced by relaxation as soon as the soothing feeling took over.
The days of my parents taking care of me in such ways have long been gone, of course. But, I will always remember those moments, especially as I take care of my own kids whenever they’re feeling unwell.
Now, as a parent, I realise just how difficult it is to watch someone you love so much to be in any kind of pain. Especially when you feel helpless to take it all away.
Right now, my four year old still believes that I can kiss and hug away his hurts. I know that this will not always be the case. So, I want to be able to be there - to kiss and to hug every bit of scrape and bump and disappointment that he has - while I can. And, of course, it’s the same for my growing baby girl too.
Yes, the three of us (myself, my boy and my girl) have felt a bit under the weather today. My boy still remained his lively self. But, my girl and I ended up spending a lot of time sleeping and resting - most of the time, in each other’s arms.
I hope that one day, they too will remember these moments of feeling cared for, whenever they feel unwell.
What about you? Do you remember what it was like when you were sick as a child? What were your favourite home remedies? And as a grown up, what are your current favourite home remedies?


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Write a Comment»My mother always took the best care of me as did my father when he wasn’t working. Soup and Vicks were always present, and even after I grew up mom would call my house to check on me if I was under the weather. I too miss the days of her being able to hug and kiss it all away. Now I just take some medicine and snuggle with my puppy
Shai Coggins reply on February 19th, 2008:
Get well soonest Shai, Cam and Hali! I’m sending you bowls of steaming chicken noodle soup.
Shai Coggins reply on February 19th, 2008:
I hope the three of you are feeling much better now! Hugs, hugs.
As a kid, I loved how my Mom would rub a hot towel dampened with water and alcohol all over me to clean me up. It made me feel instantly better. I do the same to my husband now when he feels under the weather.
Shai Coggins reply on February 19th, 2008:
Hi Shai,

Hoping you’re all better by now.
I have to be honest and say I was hardly ever sick as a kid, so I had to chuck little sickies to get that spoiling here and there when I felt like I needed it. He he.
Shai Coggins reply on February 20th, 2008: