Three weeks after starting my new job, plus a driving lesson (another one coming up tomorrow), I’m still breathing. Yes, I’m surviving my return to work and my first taste of driving.
And, I’m learning more than I realise.
And, lesson #1 is: Do Something Difficult. It’ll make you feel like you can do more.
Well, at least that’s how I felt like after my driving instructor took me to a couple of major roads during my first ever lesson. Yes, even though I didn’t even know how to pull out of a kerb — or even after I made a few major mistakes (like trying to get in to the passenger side when I knew I’d be driving) — he tried to build my confidence by letting me do what I was supposed to learn. It was terrifying and definitely way out of my comfort zone.
I thought I’d mostly get basic driving instruction on my first day - like driving around quiet blocks, stopping, turning left and right, etc. Definitely NOT driving through busy roads and dual carriageways — or doing three-point turns.
But, the good thing about what my instructor did was that he basically taught me that if I can drive like that on my first day, I can definitely drive much better once I’ve completed my log book instruction. Or simply, that I can drive.
It’s similar in my work place. I’ve been slowly getting in to case work and such. And, it can get a bit overwhelming. But sometimes, the best way to get into the swing of things is just to do things.
What about you? Is there something that you’ve been meaning to learn or to do for some time now? What is keeping you from learning/doing it? What’s the most difficult thing that you’re learning/doing right now?


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Heather 09.17.05 at 4:46 pm
I’m so glad to read you’re still doing your lessons. Go for it. Before long you’ll be driving every place and will wonder why you waited so long in the first place.
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beabear 09.20.05 at 7:00 am
Shai! Its nice to know youre taking driving lessons. When I was in London… I just drove! :p (i drove people nuts!)
And that all is well with work and that youre still breathing! haha
but you know. you can hack anything now that youve given birth. (i’m dreading my turn :p
i wanna or i need to muster up the courage to work on my post graduate degree starting next year. everytime i think about it… i get scared na baka i cant hack it…
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Shai Coggins 09.25.05 at 9:32 am
Heather: Yeah… I’m definitely glad I started now.
Bea: Yep. I have to. I’ve never driven ever! About your fear - sometimes, you just have to go for it. Otherwise, you’ll never know.
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